Hi there! Thank you so much for being here and for your question. Firstly, just know, nothing is ever TMI here!! Secondly, ugh yes! Tampons are the worst. When I first got my period in 6th grade, I thought I would try tampons. I put one in and just about passed out and haven't worn one since. They are just too painful. I do understand the annoyance of those huge pads too though, especially in this heat. So, for me, I just I can't put anything in there. So I have to stick with pads BUT I also found period underwear, which is actually pretty helpful. I found them on Amazon. I don't know if I would use them with a super heavy period, but in general, I have found them to hold up and work well. Also, I know a lot of friends who found tampons hurtful, but find cups, to work fine and not hurt. I will attach some links for you to read.
https://endometriosis.net/living/menstrual-cup
https://endometriosis.net/living/period-protection
https://endometriosis.net/living/period-panties
Hopefully these are helpful and you find what works best for you! Please, reach out with any other questions you have. Or even if you just need to chat. We are here! -Kimberli (team member)