Hi @lexarangel22,
I've had several surgeries for endometriomas, so I know how nerve-wracking it can be! First, I want to wish you much luck on the surgery.
For before surgery: I highly recommend listening to Meditations to Support Successful Surgery by Belleruth Naparstek. I helped me feel much less anxious about surgery. I've used it before each of my procedures.
Some tips that were really helpful for me for after surgery was to walk as much as you can, even if it is between your bedroom and the bathroom. Move around and then rest. It helps the gas move (a side-effect of the surgery) and it also keeps you active as you heal. I even borrowed a walker from a friend! You can also rent them.
I also got a grabber tool, which was a huge help for the first week of surgery when I was in bed a lot and needed to grab things around me without too much bending. I also got a body pillow, which allowed me to be propped up and have support under my arms while I was sleeping. I still use it all the time.
I created a Meal Train so friends could bring by meals to help with the cooking, and I made several days worth of meals ahead of time and froze them so I could easily heat something up. I had some fatigue and dizziness after surgery, so this was a huge help.
Finally, I created a relaxing song playlist I could listen to when resting, and chose some fun, uplifting shows to watch that kept me feeling positive.
Please keep in touch and let us know how it goes!
~ Katrina