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Surgical Menopause (endometrioma/bilateral oophorectomy)

Hi everyone!
I lost my L ovary in 2021 due to a long undiagnosed endometrioma that ruptured. I now have a growing endometrioma on my remaining ovary and am looking at surgical menopause in the next 1-2 years.
Would love any advice around managing sudden menopause. Would also love to hear about other's stories dealing with the dreaded endometrioma!
Thank you so much,
Jaime

  1. I haven’t had my ovaries removed, but I have had two surgeries to remove endometriomas. So, I’m always aware that they might come back. I haven’t gone through menopause myself, but here is an article from Katrina, one of our advocates, on their experience: https://endometriosis.net/living/surgical-menopause

    I’m sure others will chime in with their experience! - Keri (patient leader)

    1. Hi Keri, thank you so much for replying. Katrina's article is super helpful and I hope they, and others, see my post 😀
      I truly wish I could just have this endometrioma removed but my surgeon (who is an endo specialist out of Portland, OR) said it's highly likely I'll go in to ovarian failure if we operate on the ovary and essentially recommended I wait until I can't take the pain any longer (lol) and then we can operate.
      I didn't mention this (for anyone reading!) in my original post but I just don't want to take ovarian suppression as "buying time" with medical menopause doesn't seem right for me, and as far as I know there's nothing (birth control, etc) that stops the growth of an endometrioma. I definitely don't want to go through sudden menopause in my 30's but I also can't change the fact that endometrioma's like my ovaries, lol. SIGH 😀
      Thank you again - truly!
      -Jaime

      1. that is SO nice to hear, the mood thing is one of my biggest concerns because I'm already prone to depression (again, like I think most of us chronically ill cuties are, lol). I'll let everyone know how it goes! Thank you so much <3

      2. lol

    2. Hello Jaime, I was first diagnosed with an endometrioma on my left ovary after experiencing unbearable ovary pain for increasing amounts of time each month, until it was there on and off for 3 weeks of every cycle. I knew I couldn't carry on like I was, doubled up in pain and completely unable to do anything, and maximum dose of over-the-counter pain relief was not even touching it. After multiple doctor's visits I was finally referred for an ultrasound which picked up my 6cm endometrioma. I'd never heard of endometriosis before, but once I started reading up about it (and my mum!) we both knew I just needed to have surgery ASAP to remove this endometrioma before it did any more damage and to relieve the pain. We had to go private as it was during the peak of Covid and I couldn't wait the 9 months waiting list on the NHS with the unknown at the end of my op possibly being cancelled due to Covid, and was lucky enough to be booked in for private surgery in a month's time!


      On waking up after the laparoscopy I was surprised and dismayed at being told they hadn't been able to remove the endometrioma as it was stuck to my bowel as well as my ovary, and they would need a bowel surgeon there to be able to operate on it. But at least they had drained it down, and removed a lot of the other endo lesions across my pelvis, and apart from a horribly painful period 2 weeks after surgery (due to all the tissues disturbed during surgery), after which time I began birth control (mini-pill as I couldn't take the pill due to having had aura migraines in the past), I've had minimal ovary pain to date.

      Two years on, I've had an MRI to work out what is going on in my pelvis, as I'm hoping to have another surgery soon to completely remove the endometrioma....and the endometrioma on my left ovary is only 2cm! 😀 They said the endometrioma would fill up again after surgery so I was expecting it to, but through taking birth control ever since my last surgery has meant it has only filled up very slowly (I've now been advised to take two mini-pills a day as my periods never stopped completely, and I'm convinced if I'd done that ever since the last surgery, the endometrioma would be even smaller!) As it's still only small still, my ovary pain is manageable, by taking a max dose of over-the-counter painkiller (paracetomol and ibuprofen) soon after the pain starts thereby preventing it from getting to a much worse unbearable level of pain which cannot be managed with over-the-counter painkillers...if that makes sense!


      So, in summary, birth control CAN stop or at least certainly SLOW the growth of your endometrioma. It's just about finding the right birth control and the right dose for you. Also would your surgeon be happy to drain the cyst down to relieve the pain for you, if the birth control doesn't help? Also re birth control, I'd say keep at it...just keep taking it every day, try doubling the dose if your doctor is happy with it. Don't give up after a few months or even a year, as I nearly did as I didn't know if it wasn't making any difference...because I now know it certainly did and was worth sticking at it!


      I trust this helps, and that you can avoid that dreaded surgical menopause xx

      1. just wanted to say thank you for sharing your experience and for being here for our community members. What a journey you have been on. Sorry about all the pain and what you've been through. But SO happy to hear the mini pill seems to be helping tremendously for you. That is great news. And I hope you truly continue to find this relief. Sending you the biggest warrior hugs I can!! <3 --Kimberli (advocate)

      2. Hi 1992! Thank you so much for sharing all of this, I really appreciate it. Your endometrioma story sounds like mine, lol, gradually got worse and worse and no OTC pain reliever helped (which in hindsight should have been a larger red flag, lol, because after my excision surgery I'm able to take 400mg of ibuprofen and it does help now! I used to take 800mg and nothing!). How terrible to wake up and be told it was still there, I'm so sorry you had to go through that. My surgeon told me before we scheduled surgery that if I had any bowel endo he wouldn't be able to work on it since we weren't going to a general hospital but instead a surgery center; luckily it wasn't an issue for me.
        It is helpful to hear that birth control helped your cyst stay small, honestly your story has me rethinking trying bc, so thank you for sharing and for the encouragement - I really appreciate it.
        My surgeon basically said he didn't want to touch the endometrioma because it's likely to cause damage even if he's careful, and I trust him, but it is hard to wonder if draining it could help buy more time. He's concerned that since I only have one ovary it might just cause early menopause anyway. I may try nuvaring with continuous use so I don't bleed, and see if that keeps it small!
        Anyway, thank you so much again for your support!!
        Jaime

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