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Infertility

Hi,
Just can’t believe 4 years has passed on the infertily journey. Although 12 months has passed since surgery but still no pregnancy achieved as told it should . Im finding it increasingly impossible to be positive about getting pregnant each month , a period and negetive test is all get every month. Just can’t help it but to self doubt my own body. As tears run down my face i know my time is limit as my eggs are close to be non-existent and myself becoming a mum is virtually impossible.

  1. My heart goes out to you, . It must be incredibly hard to stay positive when you have been trying so long. How far have you gone down the road of fertility treatment? Have you taken any medications to improve fertility or have you already exhausted all the medical options? Do you feel like your doctor is doing enough for you? Has your partner been tested? I went through a full year of fertility testing before my GYN finally suggested that my husband get tested. As it turned out, he needed surgery. The surgery was a success and I was able to get pregnant soon after. Please know we are here for you whenever you need us. Sending lots of gentle hugs your way. - Lori (Team Member)

    1. Thanks for your support ,
      Yes I have nearly gone through all the options with Ivf the only option left but finically on a low income it’s not an option atm. I have had surgery for endometriosis 12 months ago but it hasn’t worked .I’m trying a medication for the last 4 months to boost fertile but it hasn’t worked also. So I have endo, low ovarian reserve of 4.4. At my age of 30 it’s should be very high so I’m running out of time for children . and thyroid issue which doesn’t work together to help achieve pregnancy. Yes my husband has being tested and he has low sperm mobility. So relley we have 4 things working against us. My doctors are amazing but there’s not much they can do until we get some funds behind us for Ivf. Mental and physical it’s tiring.

      1. I get it, . I live in a very rural area as well. We usually travel at least an hour one-way, sometimes two hours, for specialists, and mental health services are very hard to find. I hope your doctor is able to find someone to help. - Lori (Team Member)

      2. thanks for your support

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