Hello . Firstly, I am sorry you’re having to suffer through all of this. It really sounds so very tough, and I can identify with everything you describe, from the long periods to the anxiety and the PMDD.
A hysterectomy is tricky. I say this in the sense that it is an important procedure, and one that comes with no guarantees. In our community we have many discussions on the subject. Some patients have experienced a decrease and/or almost disappearance of their symptoms, while others haven’t been so lucky. Depending on the type of hysterectomy, you may experience an early menopause or take HRT (Hormonal Replacement Therapy). It is a huge decision, one only you can take.
Would it be possible for you to talk to a different doctor? I’m somewhere between stage III and IV. For years, I stayed away from any hormonal treatments because of exactly the symptoms you described. But my specialists put me on the pill version of the provera shot, and I have found so much peace. It has given me my life back. I do take a lower dosage than the one they recommended though, but I barely bleed and the PMDD I suffered (which as you know, is horrid) has gone away.
Please feel free to visit our facebook page and look up any conversations on hysterectomies. And maybe consider getting a second opinion. Most importantly, remember that it is your body, your decision. So only go for what feels right for you.
Do reach out to us if you need to. We are here for you 😀 - Jessie (team member)