Gosh, so sorry to hear you are in such pain and not having much luck with finding a doctor to truly help you manage it 🙁 That makes me sad. I would have to agree with Keri as far as the age thing. I don't really agree with the doctors saying you are "too young" for surgery. Like she said, we aren't sure of your exact age but I have talked to many who have had surgery even at the age of 12. To be able to receive a proper diagnosis, and find some relief. It is so frustrating doctors dismiss it so often. I was young when my symptoms started. But they kept telling me it was all in my head. It wasn't until I was in my late 20's someone finally diagnosed me.
Definitely see if you can find another doctor. I had to get 2nd, 3rd, even 8th opinions before I found someone who would truly sit, listen to me, and agree to the things I said I wanted/needed done.
But as Keri pointed out, I too, did not find relief from surgeries. It helped in some ways, because I had other things going on. But all in all, I definitely still experience pain. I have had 4 surgeries so far, and we are already planning a 5th. BUT, I can also say, some people truly do find relief from surgery. I think it really depends on the doctor you have and their skills/expertise in endometriosis. And what you do after surgery to continue to try and heal.
For me, honestly, diet seems to be the only thing that helps my pain. I jump between the LOWFODMAP/AIP diet. It is a lot of trial and error figuring out what exactly bothers me and causes more pain and inflammation. Basically, gluten, dairy, soy, sugar, fried stuff, high carbs, red meats- to name a few, are definite no no's.
My other go to, really is just my heating pad. Sometimes light walking, stretching, a TENS unit- are my go to's as well. I have tried numerous supplements but haven't found anything but magnesium to help.
Keri left a lot of great links to look at so I won't bombard you with more. But I just wanted to chime in and share my experience too.
I really hope you are able to find relief from the pain. I know it is so exhausting to have to deal with. If you ever need anything or want to chat more, I am here. Please message anytime. Sending you hugs and good thoughts. -Kimberli (advocate)