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Fighting for a diagnosis

Hi everyone I’m just hoping to get some advice as I don’t know where to go anymore and if anyone is experiencing the same thing as I do..

I’m 24 years old and for the past 7/8 years I’ve suffered with horrific ‘periods’

when I initially bleed I start to pour in sweat feeling so hot like I’m on fire to freezing cold I’m shaking, violently vomiting for hours at a time (last period it lasted 16 hours) the pains in my stomach and back makes me scream to the top of my voice and rock back and forth,it’s like someone’s ripping my insides out.

I’ve passed out on occasions and experienced seizure like symptoms where my legs and hands shake uncontrollably for a few seconds.
My periods are extremely heavy and I lose large clots that can hurt when they come away.

When I’m taken to hospital I’m given morphine, anti sickness and sent home. I’ve never been given an explanation as to what is happening to me apart from ‘it could be constipation!!

I was given a ultra sound scan two years ago that shown my right ovary was bulky, hypoechoic and inflamed with increased blood flow? Not sure what it all means though.
I was just given more antibiotics that made no difference.

I have tried many medications but nothing works and I am now on morphine but I still ended up in hospital last month as it wasn’t touching the sides just making the sickness worse.

I was told once by a nurse 3 years ago when I was in A&E that it sounds like endometriosis but despite pleading with doctors to help me they just aren’t listening.

I do apologise for the long post, I guess my question is does anyone else experience this? Does it sound like endometriosis or something else?

It’s ruined my life.. I can’t work because of it, I’ve lost friends due to not being able to go out and plan anything I’m in pain everyday and my mental health is in the gutter 😢 any advice/feedback would be much appreciated thank you for taking the time to read my post 🙏 x

  1. so very sorry to hear you are dealing with this all. It sounds like you have been on an exhausting journey already. One I can relate too much too. Your symptoms sound similar to mine. And every time I went to the hospital they would tell me it was constipation or gas and send me on my way without any answers. The unfortunate thing about endometriosis, is most doctors do not know much about it, if anything at all. Which can lead to years and years before a diagnosis. I can't say whether or not what you are dealing with is endometriosis but it certainly does sound similar to my experience. If you haven't yet, I would join Nancy's Nook- it is a Facebook page and she lists endometriosis specialists that you can search for in your specific location or surrounding area. A specialist may be better able to help you. Until then, I would keep fighting with your GYN and keep getting different opinions until someone listens to you. Unfortunately, the only way for a proper endometriosis diagnosis is through surgery. Many times, scans or tests won't show it.


    As for the scan of your ovary- hypoechoic typically means cyst. So it could mean you have cysts on your ovaries. But also sometimes just going through menstruation can cause inflamed ovaries. But I am not a medical professional. It can be a number of different things and I would absolutely bring this back up with your doctor and get another scan/opinion on it.


    I know this journey is exhausting and frustrating but I want you to know one thing, you are not alone. This entire community gets it and we are here for you. We truly hope you find some answers and relief and a doctor willing to listen to you. Please keep us posted on how you are doing and do reach out anytime you need to chat or have more questions. You will figure this out warrior <3 Hugs. -Kimberli (team member)

    1. This all sounds incredibly stressful. I'm so glad you've found your way here and shared your story. Sadly, you are not alone; so many people with pelvic pain have a long journey to diagnosis. And of course having so much pain and uncertainty can impact your mental health--it's hard! But I think you are asking all the right questions. As said, it can be really helpful to see a gynecologist who has experience in dealing with pelvic pain (including endometriosis). If you are seeing a GP and haven't yet seen a gynecologist, start there. If your regular GYN doc is not helpful enough, ask for a referral to this type of specialist.
      Here are a couple of articles that may be helpful along the way:
      https://endometriosis.net/clinical/doctors-visit
      https://endometriosis.net/coping/delayed-diagnosis
      Please stay in touch as to how you are managing!

      1. so so sad to hear this.Whilst am no doctor and everyone’s case and symptoms are different, your symptoms match to a friend of mine who says she exactly had something you are experiencing where her hands would shake and tremble and pass heavy clots with bad flow.She too had bulky ovaries am not sure of the other diagnosis though.Shes now married and has a kid and has absolutely no symptoms.Upon asking how she combated this she says she used to take calcium daily upon recommendation of a doctor plus bananas.She says calcium made the difference but as I said am not a doctor.Definitely consult a good Gynaec who should be able to advice you.

        1. Thankyou.I do so hope that she gets a diagnosis soon.Its heartbreaking to know the amount of pain and how much she’s had to endure.I really appreciate and like the entire community here especially how everyone is so warm and responsive.Just knowing that someone is there to listen to you when we are in pain can mean so much.

        2. That's so kind of you to say and so sweet of you. We're so glad you are finding this community helpful and supportive. We try really hard to make that happen and you literally just gave us the biggest smiles. You are definitely not alone in this. We're all in this together. Sending so much love your way! 💛 Kayleigh, Endometriosis.net team

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